Saying Yes to the Dress: A Plus-Size Bride’s Experience

Saying Yes to the Dress: A Plus-Size Bride’s Experience

Hi, I’m Chloe—a proud plus-size bride, and I’m getting married this September!

Planning my dream wedding has been one of the most exciting (and emotional!) adventures of my life. But I’m going to be honest… there was one thing I avoided for as long as possible: wedding dress shopping.

As a curvier bride, I was worried I wouldn’t get that magical “say yes to the dress” moment you always see in movies or on Instagram. I feared I’d walk into a bridal boutique, find nothing in my size, feel judged, and leave feeling like I didn’t belong in the world of bridal fashion.

But then, something amazing happened…

I Said YES to the Dress at a Plus-Size Bridal Boutique!

I had the most empowering and joyful experience at Wedding Belles Love Curvy Brides in Stoke-on-Trent. From the moment I walked in, I was treated like royalty. They welcomed me with bubbly, a personalised sign, and even gave my bridal party ribbons to help pick out dresses. I felt celebrated, supported, and seen.

And the best part? The dresses actually fit. Beautiful, modern, elegant gowns—in real plus sizes, not just stretched samples. I finally looked in the mirror and felt incredible. I saw a bride. I saw me.

And YES, I found the one! I’m keeping it a secret for now (because my fiancé reads everything I post 👀), but let’s just say: I’ve never felt more beautiful in anything in my life.

Dresses I Tried (But Didn’t Say Yes To)

I tried on five gorgeous gowns in total—four of which didn’t make the cut. But each dress helped me figure out what felt like “me” and what didn’t. Here’s a little behind-the-scenes of my try-on journey:

Dress One – Puffy sleeves & fit-and-flare drama

This dress brought major romance and high-fashion vibes. I loved the drama, but I worried it would overwhelm me. I could already picture myself looking back and regretting a trendy choice rather than a timeless one.

Dress Two – Sheer basque with netting

Pretty and delicate, but truthfully… I didn’t have the boobs for it! It looked beautiful on the hanger, but I didn’t feel secure or bridal once it was on.

Dress Three – Silky, simple & classic with added sleeves

Elegant and timeless, this one had potential. But I felt like I was trying to make it into a dress I liked, rather than loving it as it was. Close, but not quite the one.

Dress Four – Fit and flare with a plunging neckline

A flattering shape and a dramatic neckline—so many elements I loved. But again, it didn’t suit my bust, and I just didn’t feel 100% confident.

Dress Five – THE One (But Still a Secret!)

This one is under wraps… but let’s just say I knew instantly. I felt like a beautiful version of myself—confident, comfortable, and glowing. It was perfect.

The Best Plus-Size Bridal Shops in the UK

If you’re a plus-size bride in the UK, please don’t settle. You deserve a bridal boutique that makes you feel celebrated and confident. Here are some amazing plus-size wedding dress shops that cater to brides up to size 32 and beyond:

My Message to You, From One Plus-Size Bride to Another

If you’re feeling nervous about dress shopping, I get it. But here’s the truth:

  • You deserve to feel beautiful.
  • You deserve the bridal moment.
  • You deserve to find a dress that makes you feel like YOU.

Don’t put off the experience out of fear like I did. Do your research, find a body-positive boutique, and bring your hype squad. You are worthy of the same excitement, pampering, and fairytale moment as any other bride.

You’re not “too big.” You’re not “hard to dress.” You are perfectly you, and there are stunning dresses out there made with your body in mind.

So go get your champagne moment. Say YES to your dream dress. Because you, beautiful bride, are going to shine.

With love, sparkle, and lots of happy tears,
Chloe 💖

Dumplin – My honest review and what it’s really like being the fat girl

Dumplin – My honest review and what it’s really like being the fat girl

Netflix have created an original film called Dumplin and it’s causing a stir. The film tells the story of Willowdean a plus-size teen who grows up in a small Texan town. Will is immersed into pageant culture, her mum is an ex-pageant queen, but Will doesn’t want to partake as it’s not her style. Her aunt teaches her to love herself and is a really positive role model. Just like any other teen Willowdean has normal problems with relationships, friends, death and love. The films core message is that Willowdean is more than just fat.

I do wonder, however wonderful Dumplin is, whether Netflix created this film as a PR stunt after they received negative backlash earlier this year over its series Insatiable. A series whereby a girl is taunted for being overweight and she takes revenge on her bullies by losing weight; a promotion of the diet culture. However, Dumplin although a possible PR stunt is a very tasteful feel good film about a normal girl that just so happens to be plus size. Continue reading “Dumplin – My honest review and what it’s really like being the fat girl”

The Devils in the Detail – Where to shop plus size Halloween

The Devils in the Detail – Where to shop plus size Halloween

Hey guys welcome back! So this year has gone super quick and just like that it’s October! October means one thing… Halloween, muhahahaa (creepy Halloween laugh because I clearly think I’m funny).

I love dressing up for Halloween or for fancy dress parties, sometimes wearing clothes that aren’t ordinarily your style can totally give you a confidence boost and make you feel extra. Trying to find the perfect costume can be hard, but even harder when it comes to being plus size. Most Halloween or party shops only stock to sizes 16 or 18 if you’re lucky. Continue reading “The Devils in the Detail – Where to shop plus size Halloween”

REVIEW: IVYVERDURE Anti-chafing stick

REVIEW: IVYVERDURE Anti-chafing stick

So the UK is experiencing a heatwave at the moment and in some places it’s reached over 30 degrees and I absolutely love it. But we all know what it’s like when it’s hot you just want to wear as little as possible to try and stay as cool as possible. Ladies of all shapes and sizes get the chub rub, its just some people get it more so than others. Continue reading “REVIEW: IVYVERDURE Anti-chafing stick”

How to REALLY be beach body ready

How to REALLY be beach body ready

Welcome back lovelies. So it’s that time of year again where we get bombarded with all the new and interesting ways to lose weight quickly, in order to be ‘beach body ready’. But do we really need to punish ourselves year in year out for not looking like celebs in magazines? Heck to the no!

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Paris: A Plus Size Proposal

Paris: A Plus Size Proposal

Welcome back you guys! Some of you may already know I went to Paris the weekend before last and my boyfriend of 7 years proposed to me!

So if you read my last post – Things to pack for a plus size city break then you’ll already know I was going to Paris. But something special happened when we were there, I got engaged! And this is my story.

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Things to pack for a plus size city break

Things to pack for a plus size city break

Welcome back my lovelies! So it’s May already! I cannot believe how fast this year is going.

I’m so excited that it’s May, not only is it my birthday but this year I get to go to Paris with my other half. He’s planned the trip as a surprise and so I’ve no idea what we’re doing or where were going. So I have to pack for all eventualities.

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Who said black had to be so boring? 4 ways to give an outfit a pop of colour

Who said black had to be so boring? 4 ways to give an outfit a pop of colour

A lot of you babes feel most comfortable in black, this probably stems from the preconception that black is supposed to be ‘slimming’. But, who cares, you shouldn’t be afraid of introducing colour to your wardrobe in fear of standing out. If you’re unsure or not confident with wearing colours, often, just accessorising with them can really bring an outfit to life.

Block colour accessories such as statement earrings, bags, shoes or even a jacket can really add a bit of sass to an all-black outfit. Statement jewellery is everywhere at the moment, and there really are some earrings out there that could give Pat Butcher a run for her money! Continue reading “Who said black had to be so boring? 4 ways to give an outfit a pop of colour”

REVIEW: Soap & Glory Bright + Beautiful Radiance-Boosting Mask

REVIEW: Soap & Glory Bright + Beautiful Radiance-Boosting Mask

From Blotchy and Dry to Soft and Fly

Crazy face masks are everywhere at the moment there’s bubble masks, sheet masks, and even glitter masks. A number of Celebrities have been seen supporting a sheet mask from Cindy Crawford to Bella Hadid, so it’s no wonder a sheet mask can have you feeling from zero to Celeb pretty darn quick.

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